O.M.G. You're getting married!!
Congratulations! What an exciting new season you have just begun! It is not uncommon for this excitement to be accompanied by other emotions such as stress and anxiety. You might be thinking "I'm engaged, now what?" I am here to tell you "FEAR NOT!" In these 10 steps, you will discover everything you should consider as you prepare to get married!
10 things to do after you get engaged:
1.Relax With Your Soon To Be Spouse
Getting engaged can be a whirlwind of emotions, so take a moment to relax and enjoy the moment with your partner. Before you begin planning your wedding, take some time to celebrate your engagement by going on a special date night.
2. Get A Manicure
Having a beautiful ring on your finger means that it's time for you to show it off with a fresh manicure. Treat yourself to a pampering session and get your nails looking their best for all upcoming celebrations.
3.Insure Your Ring
Your engagement ring is not only a precious symbol of your love, but also a valuable investment. Insuring your ring prepares your for any possible accidents. Specifically, if your ring is lost, stolen, or damaged it will be covered. You can even insure your ring under your base renters or homeowners policy. This coverage, however, does not cover wear and tear.
4.Get Your Ring Sized
You want your wedding ring to fit perfectly and ensure that it is comfortable and secure on your finger for years to come. Consider taking it to the same place it was bought to get it resized.
5.Talk Wedding Dates
Start discussing potential wedding dates with your partner to get a sense of when you both envision tying the knot. Consider factors like season, availability of venues, and any important dates or events that may influence your decision. Also take into account how long of an engagement season you and your partner want.
6.Talk Budget
Start discussing who will be paying for the wedding, you and your partner, parents, or anyone else. Set a realistic budget for your wedding and discuss how you will allocate funds for different aspects of the celebration. Having a clear budget in place will help guide your decisions and prevent overspending.
7.Start Looking For Vendors
Begin researching and reaching out to potential vendors for your wedding, such as Venues, caterers, photographers, florists, and planners. Gather quotes, read reviews, and schedule consultations to find the best fit for your vision and budget. Research what kind of theme you want for your wedding. Do you want a beach, rustic barn, modern wedding? Whatever it might be, start looking as soon as you can because vendor availability fills up quickly.
8.Start A Wedding Website
Create a wedding website to share important details with your guests, such as the date, location, and registry information. This can also be a fun way to document your journey to the altar and keep loved ones updated on your wedding plans. You can use resources like The Knot or Zola to create a beautiful wedding website.
9.Consider Premarital Counseling
Premarital counseling helps set you up for success for your marriage. It provides a safe place to talk expectations, communication styles, conflict resolution, etc. Consider seeking guidance from a professional to help build a strong foundation for your marriage.
10.Enjoy The Season
Lastly, remember to savor this special season of your life. Take time to enjoy being engaged, celebrate with loved ones, and cherish the moments leading up to your wedding day. This is a time of love, excitement, and new beginnings – so make the most of it!